November 2014 – Winters Again!!!
Alright so the story picks
up again from here with same characters me & my better half, you
must be wondering what happened in past one year????
Really speaking it has no
relevance here because we have left it there and never listened from each other
in between but in between had our own “others” to attend to like “our work?”…..trying
to work out things here and there in life. Pulling some strings here and
there ….it’s difficult to digest but it actually went ahead like that unless
one fine day I realized while speaking to my mom that I have been trying to do
something like mistaken pursuing at mistaken places !
I mean you know what I mean …it
is rare to get people who love you, accept you the way you are, appreciate you
and are daring enough to move ahead with you and it took me almost a year to
recollect myself that I missed on someone like that so easily.
I again thought of getting
connected with him and it happened with me again, without a thought in mind
that he might have been settled with someone in life or must have already been
married by now , I reconnected & yes like I always believe that I am, I was
lucky here as well ;).
December 2014 – Winters Continued!!!
We talked again this time, with no apprehension of what happened in past one year with each other, he clearly asked it has no significance as you are speaking with me on this again and if you are “in yes” with me now we shall move ahead.
It is rare to be lucky twice, and
yes I was…lucky here once again.
The good part of meeting again
and coming after certain realizations (may be very slow) is that you don’t take
your partner for granted or you know your own shortcomings better.
So like it is said “der aaye durust aaye”.
OK we are getting married! |
11th to 26th
January 2015 - Chat Mangni Pat byaah!!!
Usually how arrange marriages
are??? Very organized with months of preparations …loads of relatives and Dulaah
- Dulhan doing separate shopping with their parents & family & how
run away love marriages are ….no relatives, Courtroom Signatures with few
friends and guess what if you mix the two we had marriage like that.
With all the flavors of one can
see in love marriage we had to do a rush court marriage after our wedding got
fixed on 11th Jan’15 & our parents were busy taking out an
appropriate date for wedding as he had limited holidays away from work.
after court marriage |
Delhi room, tea break while serious wedding discussion |
We got I think one of fastest
court marriage possible in India …only four hours, on this very cold day of
14th January (People who live in Delhi know that makarsankranti is
like one the most cold days in Delhi), with only two of his friends as
witnesses, one of my cousin brother & his sister we entered Tees Hazaari
court around 11am came out around 3pm as married couples.
It was quite an action-packed day
as we got married not once that day but twice, Once in Arya samaaj mandir( built
inside the court only to accelerate the court marriage process) and then in
court room.
dating time while shopping |
tired of shopping |
no more clicking please!...be serious it's shopping time :) |
So people who do shopping before
getting married …We did it after getting married for our final wedding that was
supposed to happen with all band baja & rituals in Bhopal on 26th
Jan’2015.
In all we had married each other
thrice in span of fifteen days ….dated like love birds that people do (while
doing shopping for final marriage together, in all that fun as it is like of runaway
couples) in there months long courtships.
We all have some aspirations or
images of our partners or married life, believe me or not I got all of them fulfilled
with little delay from my side in those thrilled 15 days ….a spicy wedding
affair from court room to Lehenga shopping, from Visa application to leaving my
Delhi room behind.
As a young girl I always dreamt
of typical man playing some music for me…. cooking sometimes for me,
understanding some things without saying …..He does all of them effortlessly …So
this is the beginning of “Our Love Story” ….and it is still going on.
I am off to make some evening tea
and yes he is still playing guitar right behind me in living room …people who
know him well the song is …."Aaj unse pahali mulakat hogi”.
अच्छी पोस्ट। वैवाहिक जीवन की मंगलकामनाएं।
जवाब देंहटाएंthank you Anup ji ;)
जवाब देंहटाएंBeautiful... lucky you both to find each other. stay in love always.
जवाब देंहटाएंthank you Shikha ji
हटाएंसमझ नहीं आ रहा है ये कमेन्ट किसको संबोधित करते हुये लिखें, अब चूंकि आपसे बात तो हुयी नहीं है हमारी तो पहले सोचा देवांशु को बोलें... फिर सोचे जब लिखा आपने है तो बधाई भी आपको ही मिले.... कुल मिलाकर आप दोनों तो एक ही हुये न....
जवाब देंहटाएंकन्फ़्यूजिंग हो गया क्या !!!
खैर जो भी हो मज़ा आया पढ़ के, शादी में तो हम नहीं आ पाये लेकिन जब आपके शौहर ने बताया कि अब ज़िंदगी 'एक से भले दो' होने वाली है तो मन खुश हो गया था... बात और है कि मैं अब तक देवांशु से भी नहीं मिला....
लिखते रहिए और उनसे भी कहिए कि आलस-वालस छोड़ें और लिखना शुरू करें....
kuch kuch samajh mein aagaya mujhe ki aap kehna kise chah rahe hain aur keh kise rahe hain :) , isiliye Devanshu ji tak bhi aap ka sandesh pahuncha diya gaya hai !
जवाब देंहटाएंawwwww lovely , jab gurgaon aao to milnaa zaroor ..bas tumhein kah rahein hai :-)
जवाब देंहटाएंBilkul Sonal ji.... Akele hi aayenge....aur kisi ko nahi laayenge
हटाएंDo you want to get a valid Court Marriage Process In Delhi after your marriage registration? The marriage certificate is valid all over India. You can apply online for marriage registration. Both the partners need to visit the marriage registrar’s office in order to get a valid marriage certificate.
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